Can you imagine telling something new and exciting to a significant role model in your life? An idea or event that has stimulated you both mentally and physically. It can be anything from trying out for a dramatic play, joining a sports team, beginning a new career, starting a new marriage, losing weight, developing a new outlook, changing your image, or continuing your education. However, “that’s ridiculous” is what you hear instead of an encouraging comment.
Negative statements such as the ones mentioned above can create fear of failure and fear of rejection within a person. This situation can leave an individual on the receiving end feeling helpless. Because of negative attitudes, barriers toward individual accomplishment is created. There is an unspoken message saying “whatever gave you the idea that you’re motivated enough?”
When you and your friend finally made the team, did the coach tell you to sit on the bench? What feelings did you experience? Were you humiliated? Did you feel insecure? What will it take for you to get off of the bench and become the athlete, the person, you truly want to become. What’s preventing you from speaking up and letting the coach know that you’re one terrific person, and given the chance you’ll prove just how unstoppable you really can become.
Sitting on the bench, and not asserting yourself, is like being in a play without acting out the part. Were there times you don’t give 100% as you go through life? Maybe it’s because you believe you might fail, or even succeed, at what you set out to accomplish. Do you set yourself up for failure and sabotage your success by telling yourself that you can’t perform well? Maybe negative and unproductive thoughts are dominating your mind. Negative self-talk takes away your motivation and is an inner barrier that must be eliminated.
Below are the 3 helpful ways to overcome success
Continually tell yourself that you welcome challenges. Stand ready and willing to challenge yourself to your maximum capacity. Move forward in your communication by deleting all negative self-talk.
Whatever you set out to accomplish, make sure you give it 100%. If you want to increase your self-esteem and achieve your goals, you need to stop making excuses for yourself. To eliminate “must”, “should”, and “ought” you need to believe in your pride of accomplishment.
Try to do your best. In an evolving way is how you should see yourself. Stretch every mental, emotional, and physical fiber within you. Believe and feel that you are one dynamite, ecstatic, and powerful person. Remember, your beliefs impact the way you feel and act.
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